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There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

Life is measured not by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human
and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Don't count the years - count the memories

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There is no way not to break someone's heart. If someone loves you and you don't love them back, then cut it off as quickly and cleanly as possible. Dragging it out and spending time with them will only make it worse. Do not tell them you love them, just tell them its over this way they can begin the healing process immediately.

-Do not lead them on. If you never really liked them, do not act like it. It is not nice nor fair to play with other's emotions.

-Be honest. If you once had a relationship and you want out, simply tell them that you have no future together and you will no longer be carrying on a pointless relationship.

-Do not be selfish. Just because you are scared to tell them that you want out does not make it OK for you to drag them on. Sometimes you have to bite the bullet.

-Do not say anything that you don't mean.

-Do not ever waste love.

-Do not date just because you want to make your spouse, ex-, or anyone else jealous, angry, depressed or any other negative emotion

although many people use this powerful phrase loosely, there are times when you want to say "I love you" in a meaningful way. Whether you're professing your love to a romantic partner or expressing it to a relative or friend, it can be difficult to convey how much they really mean to you. But by keeping the following suggestions in mind, hopefully your love will not only be understood, but it will also be welcomed and returned.

-Define love The sincerity of the phrase is strengthened by knowing what love is, and what loving someone means to you. Determine the difference between love, infatuation and lust, and make sure it's genuine love that you feel for this person.

-Make eye contact. If you love this person, hopefully you feel comfortable enough to gaze into their eyes when you express your feelings. Making eye contact shows sincerity and communicates trust.

-Smile. It can be nerve-wracking to tell someone that you love him or her, only to wait anxiously for their response--especially if it's the first time either of you have verbally expressed love. The best way to overcome this fear is to not expect the phrase in return. Your intention can be to tell the person how you feel, with the hope of making them happy and showing them that they are valued. Remember that unconditional love means not demanding anything in return. So smile, and perhaps give your loved one a hug. If they love you, too, they'll say it in their own way and in their own time.

-Be creative. Say it in different languages. Write it into a poem . If you want to be romantic, spell it out with rose petals floor. Write it in code, . Say it in little ways, like post-it notes in unexpected places, and express it in every way you can.

-Love. Don't just say it, do it. Love is not just a feeling; it's an action. Saying it without showing it is, in a way, a lie. Express your love in action as well as in words.


-Holding someone's hand as you tell them you love them can also communicate sincerity and trust,

-Love is expressed differently by everyone. Be understanding and look for your partner's ways of expressing it to you; they may not be the same as what you do or what you want them to do, but in turn you may not be doing the things they want and they should look for your way.

-Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all. If your interest is not in the other person, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person's life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, rather than not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

-Saying "I love you" in the heat of passion for the first time might not be a good idea, as the person may question the sincerity of your pledge.

-The words "I love you" can lose their meaning in a relationship if not paired with action.

Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.

steps:

1-Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.

2-empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.

3-Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person's life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.

4-Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you, do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

3-Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.

tips:

- it does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them be free. It is selfish to blame them for your feelings.

-There are many types of love, for example: a mother-son love is different from a best friend's love, which is different from a romantic love. Don't be ashamed to tell anyone that you love your friends as much as you love anyone else in your life.

-You have to find someone that will suit you, someone you feel comfortable with - not just someone to make love to.

-As a word, love can be found worldwide and is often used to describe compassion and/or emotional attachment. Accepting those you love for who they are is part of love. You also need to learn to accept yourself before you can accept another. If you cannot love your self, how are you to love another?

-Love genuinely. Do not compare your feelings now to what your feelings were when you were with another mate. At times, we can experience rejection.

-Realize that love is a feeling that wikiHow can describe and attempt to assist, but ultimately, you are the one who must take action in order to discover love

-Do things that make the other person feel good and happy, but do not smother them with gifts and attention.

-Consider some tips about what people in love do.
-People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavour to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it.
-Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfilment in life

-Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness.

-People who are truly in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them.

-People who are truly in love are considerate of each others feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores.

-People who are truly in love look out for their mates' best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well.

-People who are truly in love control their anger when the other displeases them. We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways when we counting on someone else to meet our needs.

-People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mates' disappointments or failures

-People who truly love each other treat their mates with absolute trust. Some husbands and wives torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble you will find it every time.

-People who truly love look forward to their relationship growing more meaningful and precious. They have hope. Which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. It isn't being blind and denies there are problems, but it does look beyond the problems. People who truly love each other do not allow their problems to rob them of their happiness.

-Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody who you love, that you love him/her, then you have already succeeded in love.


You must love yourself before you can love another. There is always the risk of getting hurt, but that's part of letting yourself fully love and trust some one. Being hurt could be long-lasting and could hurt more than anything in the world.Realize what you have while you have it, and care for the person you trust.